``I find it tough to accept how you can love somebody so much that you eventually come to unconsciously close your eyes to all the clues they're giving you about their obvious inability to satisfy your need to be loved. And when feeling appreciated is a vital need, you can't let go, but at the same time, we can't give any stranger the opportunity to sabotage our only source of comfort, can't we ? How unfair it is to be so fond of someone that you can easily let go of everyone else in your life just to be one hundred percent sure to be beside that person every single minute in case he-she would need you. And you're so blinded by your, let's call it love, but I'd prefer to use the verb care, that you don't mind at all giving it up, it seeming the normal thing to do when you really care. You put trust, energy, time, strength, but most of all, hope. And when all you're left with are the lacks of it all, when that person leaves you, bringing everything you shared, taking it as if it was what there is to deserve, after all you've done, no questions asked, and it's over. ``
dream on